Elderly man at home supported by daughter and caregiver, showing how home equity can pay for in-home care

Aging in Place: How to Use Home Equity to Pay for Care Without Selling Your House

September 25, 20252 min read

The challenge families face

Care at home isn’t cheap. Whether it’s hiring a part-time caregiver, installing a stair lift, or covering rising medical costs, most families eventually ask:
👉 “How do we pay for this without selling the house?”

The answer for many: use the house to support the care.


Turning equity into care

For homeowners 62+, a reverse mortgage lets them access part of their home’s value — without making monthly mortgage payments. That money can be directed straight toward:

  • Caregivers or home health aides

  • Home safety upgrades like ramps, walk-in showers, or railings

  • Respite care, so family caregivers can take needed breaks

  • A rainy-day reserve for unexpected medical needs

Instead of draining retirement savings or asking kids to shoulder the cost, home equity becomes a care fund built from the home itself.


Why it fits aging in place

Staying home isn’t just about comfort — it’s about control. By freeing up cash for care, seniors can:

  • Keep routines, neighbors, and community ties

  • Bring in help as needs change

  • Make safety updates that allow independence longer

  • Reduce stress for adult children balancing careers and caregiving


Things to keep in mind

Like any financial tool, a reverse mortgage isn’t for everyone. Families should weigh:

  • Whether the home will remain the parent’s primary residence long-term

  • The importance of preserving equity for inheritance vs. using it for quality of life now

  • The responsibility to pay property taxes, insurance, and maintenance


A real-life scenario

James, 79, wanted to stay home but needed help after a fall. His daughter worried about the cost of full-time caregivers. With a reverse mortgage, they paid off his old mortgage and set up a line of credit for care services.
Result: James stayed in his home, and his daughter avoided draining her own savings to cover the bills.

Comparison chart showing three ways to pay for in-home care: selling the home, draining savings, or using a reverse mortgage, with pros and cons of each option.


The bottom line

If your family is asking “how do we afford care?”, your parents’ home may already hold the answer. Home equity can pay for caregivers, safety upgrades, and peace of mind — without selling the house.

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Disclaimer: This is for educational purposes only and not a commitment to lend. All loans subject to credit approval, program guidelines, and property requirements. Reverse mortgage borrowers must pay property taxes, homeowners insurance, and maintain the home. Not all applicants will qualify. Consult with your financial, legal, and tax advisors before making decisions.

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Mortgage broker in FL, GA, & SC 34+ years helping buyers, self-employed clients, and investors get financed.

Toni Taylor Gozza

Mortgage broker in FL, GA, & SC 34+ years helping buyers, self-employed clients, and investors get financed.

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